How To Spot A Jealous Person
Jealousy is the act of feeling insecure about one’s self and developing a hatred towards others who display everything they are not. A jealous person aspires to be like you, but can’t therefore they develop a deep insecurity and toxic feelings towards an individual that is confident within themselves. Jealousy is running rampant these days! I see so many jealous people on social media and in real life. My mom raised me to not be a jealous person. I was always around people who were absolutely gorgeous with unique talents and instead of shelling out hate towards those people I either created WITH them or learned from them. Everyone is not AMAZING at everything and that is what makes us uniquely different. Trying to be like other people will have you losing yourself and losing at life.
The Creator gave everyone a purpose and unique gifts. People always ask me, “Is there anything you’re not good at?” My response is always, “I cannot and will not climb Mt. Everest.” I also share that I am not good at everything. I am good at what I love doing and if there is anything else I want to do I will take initiative to learn and hone in on it. It is a joy to learn and discover brand new things. It is best to remain open-minded with the humility that we are on this earth to grow as people. We excel in our OWN lane and that is what makes life absolutely wonderful.
As an entrepreneur who is super active on social media with a variety of programs, businesses, and talents, I am NO stranger to jealous people. I refuse to associate with low vibrating jealous people. That behavior is absolutely atrocious.
There are so many of you wonderful ladies sitting on your talents and gifts that you can be sharing with the world because you fear what people may say. Listen I was friends with some people who turned out to be jealous and actually started trying to compete. Others didn’t know me from a hole in the f*cking wall and decided to sneak diss.
You can be the kindest person on this earth and people will have something to say. You can be the most well-dressed, the richest, the most beautiful, and a miserable soul will find something horrible to say about you. However this should not stop you because no one knows you better than you know yourself.
Sometimes it can be super hard for other people to tell who is jealous of them. You can be friends or work with someone now who is jealous of you and not know it. Knowing the signs is super important to your growth as a person. Toxic people are unhealthy. How can you be sure who is jealous of you?
What does a jealous person do?
watch everything you do so they make fun of it - a jealous person is already insecure and they hold you in high regard. They choose to watch everything you are doing so they can somehow pick out a weakness of yours. Once they sense a weakness they will use it to put you down. People who have done this to me usually do it sneakily. I have never been outwardly approached on BS because I set my boundaries very high. Alexa, play “When I See Her” by Remy Ma ;) If anyone understands jealous b*tches or jealous people it is her, which is why I love her music. Setting your boundaries is key. You need to know that putting others down like this is a narcissistic tendency and stems from deep-rooted issues that they did not deal with in their lives
fake smile at your accomplishments - I’ll never forget when my podcast Avi Unfiltered placed No. 25 at India for Alternative Health and Top 200 at Canada for Alternative Health. When a couple people congratulated me it looked super difficult for them to smile, almost as if their face hurt. Everyone knows I do not think you have to smile to display your happiness. However they were trying to force it and it was visible
they don’t support you - someone who is jealous does not want you to succeed so they will not support you. By supporting you it somehow means “you are passing” them. Weird right? Again due to maybe poor upbringing or a lack of confidence early on and unhealed wounds, by you succeeding they feel less than
bash you to other people - they want others to see you in a bad light so they will bring you down even if they have to lie. I have seen this in my own life where people have bashed me based off of their perception of me. People who are jealous will take everything you say out of context on purpose in an attempt to destroy you
If you have any people like that in your circle, then as many people say, “It’s time for a new circle.” What you have to realize is their behavior has nothing to do with who you are as a person. Love who you are and recognize that you are the creator of your own world.
Those insecure a$$ people have to go on their own journey and find the love within themselves if they are capable of doing so. It is not your job to help them find it. Do not think you have to be around them to somehow help them boost themselves up. Do not allow yourself to be a trash bag. Do not give more than you receive. Recognize the signs.
If you try to repaint people who are like this you will be disappointed. It is best for your mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health to let them go and not ever associate with them again. When you don’t have your boundaries set people will create their own boundaries for you based upon what you will accept.
If you sense something is not right within your associations, friendships or anything else then follow that. Listen to your Spirit when it comes to making the decision to keeping people like that in your life or nor. You have the right to choose peace at all times.
Thankfully there are remedies I have compiled to help you get rid of these toxic, lower vibrational entities that have a fleshly body on this earthly dimension.
What can you do to avoid jealous people?
when someone passively (pussies) make fun of you - follow your Spirit on this one. If you feel prompted to respond to them and ask if they are talking about you then do so. Respond vs. react because a reaction is sometimes not well thought out and not as effective. Take time to think about what to say, how to say it, and what you want to convey to give an intelligent response to a weak individual who is reactive. Sometimes blocking these people and forgetting they even exist is the best policy
when someone is visibly not rooting for you - outright ask the person what their issue is and if they have an issue. You can simply say, “I noticed you didn’t seem happy when I mentioned what I accomplished. Does that bother you in some way?” You have a right to voice what and how you feel. How they react is none of your business
if there’s no support then you need to detach - if no one is adding value to your life then they should not be in it. Block them online and in real life. Do not ever become attached to people who display negative behaviors. If you want to learn more on ways to detach then I highly suggest that you listen to my podcast Avi Unfiltered Episode 142: Detachment + Dimensions
Universal Law - sometimes you let karma do what it does best. Tell the Creator, angels, and Universe that you do not receive their negative energy. Be confident in who you are. If people make up lies and you absolutely have to defend yourself because you heard it then absolutely do so. If you have to be aggressive here then do so. Always remember that you must know yourself because people are going to say things that may trigger you. However it is triggering you to look within. Be stronger within. You are enough as you are.
As a holistic health coach, spiritual healer, and vates (foreteller) I have done a lot of inner work and spiritual growth. I realize that people who are jealous are hurting people. Hurting people hurt others. Although I have nothing to do with jealous people because I disposed of them I feel bad for them. They are the most pitiful creatures on this planet. Being jealous is a sign of weakness and I highly advise those with this energy vampire tendency to get to the root of where that malicious behavior started. Many jealous people can’t deal with hurt so they would rather watch you bleed. See getting to the root of their pain brings about their biggest fears, insecurities, and makes them feel less than.
This is why they try to do it to other people. They have lives their entire lives letting a negative occurrence take hold of them. Some people even turn into the very person who hurt them, This is extremely sad. It is not your job to help them if they are toxic to you. They don’t want your help. They want to manipulate you into staying their trash bag for their insecurity projection. They will watch everything you do in the hopes that they can somehow be better than you. As I’ve said in another episode of the Avi Unfiltered Podcast, “competing is incompetence.” Anyone who competes to somehow one up you is already beneath you. When you are in your own lane you simply move forward and stay focused. A jealous person gets off track because they are imbalanced.
Root for yourself when others don’t root for you. The hurt comes in when you are attached to those people. Once you adopt the “what’s meant to be will be” mindset you will feel better HONEYS ;) You don’t need their support. Focus on how you support yourself and do some self care. Focus on the ones who support you and get rid of those who don’t. Those who bash you end up bashing themselves. I can’t tell you how many people spoke badly towards me and got severe consequences from the Creator, Spirit, and angels for it. Universal Law skips no one. Remember to stand up for yourself in whatever way feels right to you.
Block these people online and in real life. Would you eat a genetically modified apple if you knew it was poison? These people are poison. They will hate you and everything you do. Learn the art of detachment and choose your happiness. Let them be your lesson to set up higher boundaries and develop more as a person. Always know you are protected from the divine Creator, Spirit, and angels. You are fully supported by Allah, which is the kingdom within you. “Put on the whole armor…” Balance those chakras and continue to do your purpose on this earth. Don’t let a muhf*cka bother you, get in your energy, and try to steer you off your path. You got this Loverly Peacefuls™
- XO,
Avi
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